The Fertility Mentor
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|Posted on January 2, 2012 at 4:58 PM|
I will start this post by wishing everyone a happy and healthy New Year. Not just because it's the cliche thing to say this time of year, but because I really wish you happiness and good health this year. By happiness, I mean the fulfillment one feels when realizing their goals. By good health, I mean whatever it takes to be happy, while taking the best care of the body, mind and spirit.
Whether your family building happens biologically, or through a donor egg/sperm, or through a surrogate, or adoption, I wish for you that it comes true this year, in whatever form it takes shape.
Over the holidays, many of you spent days or weeks continuing your quest for a family. Or maybe you took a hiatus. Maybe you spent your holidays close to home, while enduring another IVF treatment. Maybe you spent time with your families, dodging questions about why you're not with child yet. Maybe you were preoccupied, waiting for your adoption attorney to call you with good news.
To someone undergoing fertility treatments, the holidays represent the best and worst time of year. The best, because once a child blesses your life, you can't wait to share all of the traditions and experiences that the holidays represent. The worst, because without a child, the holidays are just filled with tension and stress (OK, even with a child, the holidays can be stressful, but let's just get there first!).
I hope whatever your situation, that your holidays were also a reminder of the importance of family and friends, and how comforting their presence can be during darker times. Lean on them as much as you are comfortable doing, and pull strength from wherever you can. Most of all, be kind to yourself. It's the best gift you can get.
Categories: General infertility